Sunday, March 23, 2025

That’s a wrap

Tomorrow, we both go back to work.  Any and all Spring Break activities end today.  In fact, our out-of-town activities ended yesterday.  We got a slow start yesterday, grabbing a quick bite from a selection of fruits and pastries our hotel provided, then we headed to a barbecue place that a friend recommended.  Recommendation approved, and now, we can tell others that Heim BBQ in Fort Worth is a winner.  They are apparently known far and wide for their bacon burnt ends and their chile mac and cheese.  Both are exceptional, though you have to do a little dissection with the bacon to get the meaty part away from the fatty bits.  

After that, we headed back downtown and took a trolley ride.  There is a complimentary trolley that makes a loop around downtown, and the driver we met was extremely polite and very helpful.  When he deposited us at the Water Gardens, we were glad to have taken advantage of that service.  We walked through the various parts of the large, outdoor display of fountains and man-made water features.  While we were there, we noticed that several parents were not only permitting their kids to wade into some of the pools, but they were apparently encouraging it.  Every entry point to these features noted that patrons should not get into the actual water, and a quick sniff test will tell you that the space smells more like an aquarium than a swimming pool.  I can't imagine what would prompt these parents to encourage this, especially considering the the Water Gardens were closed for a time in 2014 when one adult and three children were killed there.  In fact, right there.  In the "active pool" area where I was standing and watching three children splash about in the water.  

I feel bad, too, for the kids whose parents insisted that they follow the rules.  There were, no doubt, some children who wanted to join in the fun, but whose parents said no, and insisted that they follow the rules that other folks were clearly ignoring.  As much as I love the Water Gardens, I left a bit frustrated with their visitors.  

But it was time to head on down the road, anyhow, and when we did, we walked past the convention center and through a public space occupied by vendors, displays and other booths like you'd see at any decent convention.  It was all for the Bassmaster Classic.  And honestly, when would we see such a display again?  So we took a stroll.  We saw what basically amounted to an above-ground pool, filled with live fish that children were competitively catching as though it was a carnival game  We saw large, inflatable fish displays, trucks and boats, and notably, an inflatable bounce house shaped like a wide mouth bass.  It was a spectacle, and we had to have a look, but we didn't want to linger.  

After that strange promenade, we stopped at a local patio for one more cold beverage, then we headed out of town.  We're back home today, and made it here with no road debris and no need to find a shop that could pop a new bolt into the underside of the car.  It's back to work tomorrow, and that begins the sprint to the finish line at the end of the school year.  Then, it's on to Paris!  See you when we don our berets!

Until then, here is our photo album: https://tinyurl.com/DunlapFW

Saturday, March 22, 2025

That place was a zoo!

I believe every parent and child in the greater Fort Worth area was at the Fort Worth Zoo yesterday.  We arrived around noon, and when we got there, all vehicles were being directed to park on the grass.  There were annoyed teenagers in yellow vests orchestrating the process so they could maximize use of the grassy space near the overstuffed parking lot.  We rolled in next to a big truck, and another big truck came in next to us on the other side,  I sometimes wonder why so many people need so many very large vehicles, but I have a new theory, thanks to the Fort Worth Zoo.  

Families need vehicles that large to transport what are, effectively, smaller vehicles.  It seemed that every child at the zoo yesterday needed a non-walking option.  The push-me-pull-you parade was out in full force.  There were strollers of varying size and complexity, some of them almost too wide for the doors that their owners were trying to shove them through.  Then, there were wagons.  And we’re not talking about old school Radio Flyers.  No wood or metal wagons like I remember from way back.  These things were padded and had cup holders.  Luxury wagons.  And the kids were often far too large to be pushed or pulled around.  I get that sometimes, mobility is a problem, and I suspect it’s easier to keep your kid from running off in a crowd if he is seated in a wheeled thing, but isn’t the whole point of taking a kid to a thing like the zoo that he gets to explore, burn a few calories, knock out some of that great kid-energy and sleep like a log that night?  Ditch the luxury wagons, make sure his shoes are tied and let him actually walk around. It will make so many things easier- not the least of which being my ability to walk around the zoo at the same time.  

The Fort Worth Zoo is a very good zoo.  And as much as we actively chose to go there and as much as we really enjoyed it, we got to our far away car at the end of our adventure, closed the car doors and enjoyed a moment of peace and quiet.  I told Cas I almost wanted to turn the radio off and sit in silence.  He really likes having music on all the time, and I think he was considering it.  

It was afternoon, and we had some space in our day between leaving the zoo and making it to our dinner reservation at 8:15.  Also, there was a distillery in town we hadn’t tried out in any previous visit.  Nothing like an out of the way spot where every person present must be 21 or older after the pure chaos of the Fort Worth Zoo during the last weekday of most folks’ spring break.  We really liked the TX Whiskey Ranch.  It’s both a very good distillery (yum!) and a beautiful place.  They boast a beautiful sunset view, and if we had been around at that time, we certainly would have taken them up on it.  The jury is still out on what our night looks like tonight, so it’s not off the table.  But apparently, they are perfectly placed to view the sun going down behind the silhouette of the Fort Worth skyline.  Sounds really pretty, and we kind of want to see that.  Maybe this trip, though, and maybe another day.  

All that remained on our agenda as we left the peace and tranquility of the Whiskey Ranch was our 8:15 reservation at the Reata.  It’s a good restaurant we visit every time we go to Fort Worth, and it’s changed locations a few times in its history.  Originally (at least when I started paying attention) it was in a building that got pretty badly battered by a tornado.  That sent it to the spot we have been before, a corner location with a great rooftop bar.  I guess their lease was up, so last night, we visited the newest Reata location, and at dinner, our server let us know that this, too, was temporary.  They had plans to move to yet another spot in the future.  Sheesh.  I certainly hope the new spot has a rooftop bar again.  That was pretty neat.  

Cas and I shared a steak dinner, and even though we’re pretty sure they brought the wrong appetizer, we enjoyed that, as well.  We ordered the bacon wrapped shrimp, and we got something else bacon wrapped, but it had peppers and crabmeat.  No worries- it was good, too.  I just hope someone at another table wasn’t too disappointed with our shrimp.  

Cas and I walked back from the restaurant, briefly entertained the idea of heading to a piano bar, saw the line to get in and headed back to our hotel.  The day was plenty full, as it turns out, and we were all tuckered out,  If only someone could have dragged us around in a padded luxury wagon (with cup holders!), we would have had all of the energy.  Alas, my fancy watch showed 15,000+ steps, and that was enough for me.  Today, we have ideas about a trolley ride and maybe a few more adventures, then we head back to the house, then back to our jobs in our schools, which are often more zoo-like than they should be.  

Here is a photo of me and Cas, in the zen-like, calm, barrel-lined space at the Whiskey Ranch: 

In case you want to see more photos, here is the link to our photo album: https://tinyurl.com/DunlapFW 

Friday, March 21, 2025

Gone fishin’

Skipping school.  Playing hookey.  Calling in sick.  It feels like I am breaking a rule or something, but I am well within my rights.  In fact, I rarely use a sick day, a PTO day or any other day when I am gone and everyone else is at work.  And when I have done that lately, it’s been to accompany loved ones to big, important medical things.  It’s frankly about time I take a few days for non-surgical reasons.  So here I am, at the beautiful and historic Ashton Hotel in downtown Fort Worth.  We had a very good, slightly strange day yesterday, and today, we’re planning to head to the zoo.  But let’s recap.

Cas is on Spring break this week.  He got to do some of the tedious adulting stuff earlier in the week, too.  He manned the checkbook when we had a repair person come out and fix a thing at our house, made a trip to our local warehouse store for paper towels and Kleenex and such, and on Wednesday, he drove me back and forth to work while my car got new brake pads.  Woo-Hoo!  What a fun vacation!  Nevertheless, when my Wednesday at work ended, I put a sign on the library door explaining that it would re-open Monday and I got the heck out of there.  Thursday started well enough.  I made a bit of food, and we went about the business of managing two more errands on our way out of town.  Somewhere along the path to Fort Worth, a chunk of road debris suddenly flew into our path and skated under Cas’ car.  It was quickly gone again, but it apparently sheared off the head of just one bolt on its way back to the rear bumper.  We didn’t know a single thing was wrong until we got off the highway and stopped moving at highway speeds.  There was a rattle.  The rattle showed up just a little bit on our way to the Kimbell Art Museum.  We figured it would probably still be there when we got out of the museum, so we checked out some art.  It’s a nice collection, and we had a good time moving from paintings to sculptures to an outdoor fountain.  We also made sure to locate the one thing in the space that was painted by Michaelangelo.  It was something he did when he was around twelve or thirteen years old, and it’s called “The Torment of Saint Anthony.”  I work with twelve and thirteen years old olds daily, so thinking of it from the perspective of someone who knows how middle schoolers operate, it’s even more impressive.  But we were starting to get a little hungry, so with a nod toward the great masters, we headed for the door.  

There was still a rattle, and it had gotten worse.  But also, we were hungry.  So the plan was formed.  We stopped for a sandwich at a place one of my mother-in-law’s “foodie” friends recommended: “Local Foods Kitchen.”  Five stars, by the way.  Amazing food, though the atmosphere was a little chaotic.  While we ate, we researched auto repair shops in the immediate area.  We ended up choosing a spot called J&N that got us in and out in under 20 minutes with a new bolt, a rattle-free vehicle and a smile, all for ten bucks.  Mischief managed.  We need to go leave a Google review, because that place was… well, to borrow a term from the kids I teach… it was clutch. 

After that, it was late enough in the day to check in to our hotel. We did that, dropped our stuff off and headed to a spot just down the street that has a bubbles-themed happy hour.  Half price sparkling wines at a spot called “Grace.”  Seems appropriate to celebrate our vacation’s beginning with a toast.  From there, we headed to a few other spots, ending up at Thompson’s Bookstore, which is a bar that has a speakeasy walk-through-the-bookshelf bar downstairs from it.  Seems strange to have a secret bar under another bar, but they seem consistently busy in both bars, so it must be working out.  They print the password on the bottom of the receipt you get at the main floor’s bar, so to get downstairs, you have to walk to the bookshelf and speak the password to the man guarding the bookshelf.  Yesterday, it was “When it’s a jar.”  The password is a punchline to a punny joke.  Great.  When is a door not a door?  When it’s ajar!  Nyuk Nyuk.  We only used the password to take a stroll through the downstairs so we could scoot out of the secret exit.  

Something we discovered in our moving around town was that this weekend, Fort Worth is hosting an event that is touted as the Super Bowl of Bass Fishing.  And now, I feel like a dummy, because I didn’t know catching fish was a competitive sport.  I have follow up questions.  Is there a trophy?  Maybe a gold, silver, bronze kind of thing?  Who competes?  Did they make it through several levels of competition to get to the big show that is the Bassmasters Classic, which is what this thing is apparently called?  I am having a good time trying to predict who is in town specifically for the fishing competition and who is just a garden variety tourist.  We will certainly see more of this today as we head to the Zoo.  In the meantime, hang a Gone Fishin’ sign on my door, because I am off work and on an adventure with Cas.  

Thursday, March 13, 2025

Five years ago today

Five years ago today was the last day I stood in front of my classroom as a teacher.  I saw all of my students- at least those who elected not to take advantage of the unofficial "senior skip day" they'd declared.  It was a Friday the 13th, the day before Spring Break, 2020.  I went to a post-work happy hour with some of my teacher friends, not knowing I would never return to that job- not knowing it would be a long time before any more post-work happy hours.  

Cas and I decided that morning to cancel our hotel reservation in New Orleans for the following week, since cancellations were free.  Heck, if everything blew over, we may get a better deal, right?  And Southwest Airlines let us apply the cost of our tickets to another flight later, so we could probably cancel that closer to take off, if we needed to.  

We needed to.  

Here are some things I remember saying on that day:

Okay, I want to show you guys how to get into Google Classroom and submit an assignment, just in case you need that information later.

Video calls with your class?  I think I remember something from grad school (searching files... searching files...) Yeah, it was called "Zoom."  You may want to check that out.  

For the love of God, if you vape, you gotta stop.  The thing that's going around is respiratory.  

I hope I'll see you all in a week, but if not, stay safe!

Those kids didn't get a prom or a regular graduation ceremony.  They each got a PowerPoint slide with their senior picture and some nice memories from their teachers written on it.  The District broadcast these slide shows at appointed times so loved ones could watch.  There was a drive-through parade where they were in cars with their caps and gowns- all in attendance stood at a safe distance and cheered for them.  

I was spending my last year as a classroom teacher, and I was actively seeking work as a school librarian, so I sprung for the extra autograph pages in my yearbook order.  I wanted to collect some nice memories from my last crop of kids at that school.  

I still have a blank set of autograph pages in my final yearbook from that job.  Me and my students stayed connected as much as we could.  They logged on to my Google classroom and completed some modified assignments from home.  I had been teaching mostly classes in Digital Media and one section of class in Journalism.  It wasn't going to be the same- I couldn't teach them to do animation if they didn't all have a computer to begin with.  And forget about audio and film editing.  We did lessons on photo composition.  They all had phones with cameras, and a bunch of them had Chromebooks- certainly not a powerful enough machine to do fancy film and animation projects.  Instead, they got to learn about the rule of thirds, s-curves, negative space- and they had to take and submit photos that demonstrated those elements.  It was the only thing I could think of, and the kids had it tough enough trying to learn to do calculus and analyze Hamlet from their homes.  

The last newspapers of the year would not make it to print, either.  We did a PDF paper with what we had then spent the last bits of the year journaling instead of doing journalism.  Seemed fitting.  

I spent just a little time today re-reading my blog for them and their blogs for my class.  The majority of us were both hopeful and frustrated.  I was pretty burned out in my classroom, and I was certainly ready to move to a school library job, but those were some great kids, and I really missed out on their last few months of school just about as much as they did.  

It was five years ago today.  It seems like a whole different world.  Here's to those hopeful (if frustrated) kids who are probably around 23 years old, now.  It was a resilient bunch- I suspect they're plotting to take over the world as we speak.  Good thing, too.  They were smart kids...

Tuesday, March 11, 2025

Scenic Denton, Texas!

So, it's my spring break right now, but poor Cas is at work today.  And I have to go do my job when he's out on his spring break.  I don't mean to sound like I am complaining, either.  It's such a neat benefit to be an adult who gets a week off in the spring like the kids in school do, and this is only the second time since we've been together that our spring breaks didn't line up.  No matter, though- we're packing our weekends with adventures and I've been getting a ton of tedious adult-ing done.  It's nothing thrilling on that front, really.  I mean, today, I bought a new trash can for our kitchen.  See what I mean?  Tedious adult-ing.  But we did spend a night in scenic Denton, Texas on Saturday.  

See?  Just saying "scenic Denton" doesn't make it so, does it?  But there was an ad that showed up somewhere in front of me a while back for a touring company of guys from the improv TV show Whose line is it, anyway?  Well, they got me.  I wanted to see that show, so Cas and I bought tickets.  The show was at a performance hall on the UNT campus in scenic Denton, Texas.  Two of the performers from the regular show were on stage, along with two guys who were at varying levels of fame from other shows, and a fifth guy I had never heard of.  From the original show, we saw Ryan Styles and Greg Proops.  They added Kids in the Hall star David Foley and Gary Anthony Williams, a guy who voice-acts a character on a cartoon show I don't watch.  I honestly don't remember the name of the fifth guy.  Regardless, the show was hysterical, and we were glad to have gone.  Before that, we spent a little afternoon strolling-around time in Denton, checking out a used book and record store, a funky restaurant and a bar that was themed around board games.  In fact, it was called d20, which I needed Cas to explain to me.  That's a nerdy way to say 20-sided-dice.  Which, I suspect, is a very important kind of thing to have if you play lots and lots of role playing games.  Either way, it was a cool bar.  We played a few card games and one logic game, but mostly, we soaked in the atmosphere until we needed to get moving.  Here we are in front of the Denton courthouse that anchors a cute town square:


After that, we checked into our room, dropped off our stuff and headed to the theater for the show.  What a great time!  I can see us heading back to Denton, actually.  We felt pretty at-home there.  I guess a college atmosphere works for teachers?  Or maybe we were seeing what happens to a college town in its spring break, when all of their kids run away for vacation and the adults are still in town, because it didn't feel like we were overrun with kids in their late teens and early 20s.  

The next morning, we had breakfast at a place that was about as cowboy as you can get.  It was called Cartwright's Ranch House.  They had menu items named things like Annie Oakley and Doc Holiday, and every waitress was wearing a t-shirt that extolled the virtues of their chicken fried steak.  We split something, and still ate way too much.  

After that, we had to get back.  Cas had papers to grade before Monday, and when Monday morning came, he got in the car to go to work while I stood in the garage to wave goodbye.  No worries, though- he'll get to do that for me next week.  

This coming weekend will be the end of my break and the start of his, and we've got a few plans for that, but the following week, I am actually taking two personal days on Thursday and Friday so we can head to Fort Worth.  I have so many days stacked up that I could never actually use them all before retirement, so why not?  Because they roll over every year and I hate calling in, I have a lot.  

I am sure he'll make a photo album when he's not consumed with being an awesome math teacher, but for now, wish me a happy spring break!  And prepare to wish Cas a happy one in a week.  See you bac here on the weekend!

Friday, January 3, 2025

A Nature Fix

So, I’m betting that the first thing most people think of when they think of a trip to Las Vegas is not necessarily a scenic river raft ride on the Colorado River.  But seriously, maybe it should be.  Today, we went on our once delayed river raft trip from the good folks at Hoover Dam Rafting Adventures.  We initially booked an hour-and-a-half trip for Thursday that would all but ensure we’d be at the airport in time on Friday.  There was no real way of knowing if the time shown on the website included transportation to and from the river, and the folks I called on the phone from Dallas, while helpful, were not directly connected to the tour company, so they couldn’t guarantee we’d make it to our flight today.  So we booked yesterday.  

On Tuesday, we got a call that our Thursday tour was cancelled.  Not enough interest, I suspect.  And we were either due a refund in full or an upgrade to a three hour tour with pick up, drop off and a turkey sandwich for lunch.  Once the woman on the phone promised we’d be back to our hotel by 3:30, we were in.  Our flight leaves around seven, so no worries.  And oh my gosh, what a good call that was.  We were taken in a very comfortable van to a restricted road that wound down to the base of the Hoover Dam.  We stood there, taking it all in, before we boarded our raft.  There were some cancellations, so the raft was pretty unpopulated.  We were there with six other people- seven, if you include the tour guide/boat operator.  We cruised around, got out a few times and took some amazing photos.  The Hoover Dam is a spectacle of engineering.  When was the last time a government project came in early and under budget?  Probably back in the ‘30s, when this dam went up.  
It was really a good nature fix after the smoky casinos, flashing lights and constant thrum of the city.  One reasonably quick van ride, and you’re floating past it all.  

We really enjoyed it.  I mean really.  The whole trip down the river was beautiful.  There were different kinds of birds flitting about, lots of folks paddling canoes and plenty to see as we made our way from the Hoover Dam to a spot farther down the line.  There’s not much I can say to describe it all at this point.  It was beautiful.  We were happy to be there.  That’s it.  

But if you ever go to Las Vegas, book that trip.   Don’t worry about a river raft in the winter.  They make efforts to keep all their patrons dry when it’s cold outside.  We got some great photos, fed our need to do something outdoorsy, and really wrapped up our Las Vegas days in unlikely fashion.  Just how we like it.  

We’re at the airport, now, relaxing with nothing on our agenda but a flight home.  We’ve kicked back with two plastic cups of slightly overpriced wine and done a crossword puzzle together,  It’s a good day today.  We’ll head back to Dallas, soon.  My younger brother is all ready to stay up late for the airport retrieval that looks increasingly like it may fall just after midnight, and after that, we have to get ready for a return to work.  Apparently, a polar vortex is headed to Dallas mid-day on Sunday, and we will need our heavy winter coats pretty soon.  So we move on. 

Until the next time we’re off for a bit, take care of yourselves.  We’re on until March, and we somehow have different spring breaks this year.  I am a week before him, and we have one weekend in common.  We’ll do something, but until then, this Monday-to-Friday was pretty great.  

One last link for all the photos you can stand: tinyurl.com/Dunlapvegas 

Have a great 2025! 

Date night

Depending on who is reading this right now, you may or may not know that Thursday is date night at Casa de Heather and Cas.  Sometimes, that’s a dinner out; occasionally, it’s pizza and a movie.  It’s just a night when we don’t do homework, we don’t run a ton of errands, and we do something together.  

Today is Thursday, and it turns out we had ourselves a date night in Nevada.  It started in the morning with a trip to the iconic “Welcome to Las Vegas” sign.  Oof, there are a lot of people who want that same photo.  We opted for a quick selfie and a hasty retreat.  There was one heck of a line.  That was our first adventure on a city bus.  There’s a double-decker bus called “The Deuce” that runs up and down the strip, extending out a little on the north and south ends to some other attractions.  For eight bucks a head, you can hop on anytime you want for a full 24 hours.  

Our intention was to go from our hotel at the south end of the Strip to that sign, even farther south, then all the way north, past the strip to Fremont Street, where we could see some of the remnant pieces of old Vegas.  It was interesting, but my threshold for places like that is pretty low.  At every turn, there’s a street performer or sketch artist or someone weaving items out of fallen palm fronds.  Each and every person wants you to buy a thing or tip for a thing, and they all have extra loud speakers, somehow.  All the shops had souvenirs, most of which were pretty inappropriate, and there were families with strollers everywhere.  It was frenetic.  It was more than I wanted to deal with.  We thought of maybe finding a place with outdoor seating where we could sip a beverage and watch the world go by, but the beverages available for sale were all canned beers and frozen fruity drinks, and we were feeling the need for something a little more upscale, somehow.  

That put us on a path to our next destination, which had us walking down a much more mellow street.  We made our way to the Mob Museum by way of a restaurant that specialized in margaritas and nachos.  That actually qualified as more upscale than the fare sold on the Fremont Street.  

That was a good stop, but we had to keep on moving.  The Mob Museum awaited us just a block or two away.  

It’s a good museum, too.  I was a little frustrated about one feature of the setup- it was put together in such a way that only one or two people could read an exhibit at a time.  The text was small and the hallways were tight, so there was lots to read and not much space to share.  That space constraint was unavoidable, too, as the Mob Museum was in a building that went up in the ‘30s and served as a combo post office and courthouse.  

The courthouse saw lots of hearings about corruption and the museum did a lot to explain what happened in Las Vegas surrounding prohibition, which is why the basement speakeasy was so awesome.  The visit to that speakeasy punctuated our learning about organized crime and bootlegging.

We ordered a drink that came mixed in a glass flask inside a hollowed out book.  It was served with a glass of ice on the side, but the prohibition feel of the hidden hooch was pretty unique.  When we determined that we needed to leave to make our next destination before the cold really kicked in, the waitress assured us we could come back later on.  She was very good, and so were the drinks.  

Next stop: The Neon Museum.  This was a spot where signs pulled down from old casinos and businesses rest, some illuminated and others not so much.  It had placards telling the famous features of the specific pieces and historical information about some of the items.  It was all very cool, and it was all outdoors, as large, neon signs are supposed to be.  

All in all, it was a very cool museum.  When we wrapped up our visit there, we took our waitress’ advice and went right back to the Mob Museum’s Speakeasy.  The drinks were good, and they had some really good looking small plates to share.  Two more cocktails and a plate of beef sliders later, and we were ready to call it a night.  We hopped back on the bus.  That was an adventure. There was a clearly drunk man on the top part with us who wanted us to all know two things: Sunday is his 68th birthday and his wife left him.  While I am sad about the state of his marriage, I don’t entirely know what that has to do with me or the rest of the folks trying to get south on the Vegas Strip.  After he concluded a verbal argument with another passenger, he made his way off the bus.  We were also joined by some very, very chatty young ladies and a slew of bachelorette revelers or birthday girls or something.  It was a very long one-hour bus ride.  Now, I don’t think it was supposed to be a full hour, but there was a hockey game letting out right as we crept past that part of the strip, which is why it took so long.  Regardless, even that was entertaining.  

Tomorrow, we have to be packed and ready for our trip to the Hoover Dam.  The bags have to be checked in at the hotel desk when we leave for the adventure, so we can return to retrieve them, then head to the airport.  Apparently, our jobs want us back on Monday.  Go figure.  But overall, it was a pretty great date night.  

Here are our photos once again: tinyurl.com/Dunlapvegas